This is a never ending relation again...each is so dependent on the other and they do not like being dependent either! (If you get what I mean). You expect only from people you are close to and certain times expectations in a relation hurts or may be too much to ask for. There is never a rule that states don't expect from the ones you are close to or all that is expected has to done for you. It all comes down to the level of trust and respect for the particular individual. Being at the receiving end of getting what I expected and not getting my expectations met had got me thinking. Does it signify the level of importance one has for the other when your expectations are met or does it mean you were taken for granted just because your expectations were not met...or the plain fact ..don't expect too much...if something you wished for happens... be happy or if does not..it's ok..life still goes on!!! I wish I had the answers to both the questions above...
Again does it mean you care so much for the person that you are disappointed ultimately or does it mean you just don't care enough. Relationships are not surely measured my any means, it is an abstract feeling or level of closeness with the individual which only the two can feel !! Only if the feeling is mutual on either side there could be some sanity in the expectations met and expectations not met category...all said and done...I still have no answer to the basic question...should we expect anything at all from our loved ones or just that not to stress out in case things don;t happen the way we want them to ???!!
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